#truth

It's hard to tell what is really true any more. With all the social media taking over people's lives, the only access we have to one's life is what we are fed through, Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Instagram, WhoSay, SnapChat, Vine or a myriad of other social sites that I don't even know about. Even when you have an actual conversation with someone, they usually tell you what you could easily find out just by going to Twitter or Facebook or one of their profile son any of the aforementioned sites. There doesn't seem to be much of real information being shared.

I'm going to call myself out in this one. I took a photo the other day of a sunset and it was really pretty. But the pressure of social media got to me and I decided it wasn't quite perfect. So, I used an editing app and I brightened the colors. To be totally honest, I had no idea what I was doing but then the oranges looked beautiful so I stopped and posted it. I didn't say much other than #theviewfromhere and #azsky. But I wasn't being truthful. It WASN'T the AZ sky that I was sharing; it was a dressed up version of it. The left picture is completely unedited while the right is my trumped up version.












I'm reminded of a friend who kept posting all this stuff about how great her life was, how perfect and fun, how she was really living life to its fullest. Everyone thought her life was incredibly fabulous and she was lucky and blessed. But when she talked to her closest friends, you realized that it was all a sham. Her life was NOT as fantastic as she portrayed. Yes, she was going out and having a wonderful time but her marriage sucked, she had a ton of unresolved issues from her childhood, and she was finding ways to mask her pain. But on social media everything was wonderful.

I don't want to live a life that is a lie; because that's what this social media phenomenon is. "Look at me, look how fabulous I am, look how great my life is!" Screw that. Life sometimes sucks, people. Marriages fail, children die, planes disappear out of the sky or crash or get shot down. This is our reality. Do we need to be negative all the time? Of course not. Life is too short for that. But let's be realists and not sugar coat everything. When someone asks how you are, be honest. Who knows, maybe they can offer something that will make you feel just a little bit better. :)

~with much love, always