My children

My kid just told me he hates doing his chores because he's afraid I'll get upset if it's not perfect and make him re-do it? Really?? My children think I expect perfection from them and right now my heart is broken. I've never once told them I expect them to be perfect or get perfect grades. I expect them to do THEIR best and if they choose to go above and beyond, that's their own choice. I am devastated and completely thrown into a dark place because of this revelation.

I am feeling overwhelmed, under appreciated, frustrated, unhappy with where my life is at in this particular point in time. I guess the best part is that at least Brian and I are doing ok (as far as I know.)