And just like that....

....it's over. No pomp, no circumstance, no drama - completely unlike our 23+ year relationship.

July 30, 1994 - February 10, 2015. 7502 official days of marriage. Done.

When the divorce papers show up with the judge's signature and a date on it finalizing the decision to end your 20-year marriage, there are so many emotions that run through your mind. Relief that it's over, sadness that it's over, happiness that you can now move on and not look back at all the mistakes you made (except to hopefully not make those same mistakes again), guilt for being happy, anxiety, fear of the unknown, tears.  I'm trying really hard to remember that this is an opportunity to make a better life for myself and make sure our children stay as normal and grounded as possible.

Life is will be good. :|



~with much love, always